Eros, Self-Awareness, and Being a Good Partner — with Esther Perel

Teaching Empathy

Teaching empathy to children involves more than just instructing them to be kind; it requires engaging them in meaningful conversations and experiences. Esther Perel emphasizes the importance of involving children in adult discussions, allowing them to learn from real-life interactions and stories. She suggests that having children participate in family gatherings and discussions about movies or articles can foster a deeper understanding of relationships and empathy 1.

The more you give, the more you have, of caring, not just in the abstract, about the well-being of people on another part of the planet, but literally, about the person next to you.

--- Esther Perel

By sharing experiences and encouraging open dialogue, children can learn to appreciate diverse perspectives and develop a genuine concern for others.

   

Role Modeling Kindness

Role modeling kindness is a powerful tool in teaching children how to be considerate and compassionate individuals. Esther Perel shares her personal journey of raising her sons in a foreign culture, emphasizing the importance of instilling values through actions and conversations. She highlights the significance of parents demonstrating positive behaviors, as children often absorb these lessons even when they seem inattentive 2.

Even when you think they're not listening, they're listening. Even when they roll their eyes, even when they don't want to hear you, they're listening.

--- Scott Galloway

By consistently modeling kindness and addressing toxic behaviors, parents can guide their children towards becoming empathetic and responsible adults.