The Addiction to Approval
We are inherently competitive beings, driven by an instinctual desire to excel and gain approval from others. This desire can manifest as an addiction to validation, particularly from strangers, leading to a cycle of seeking affirmation that can be both rewarding and detrimental. Despite the unconditional love from close relationships, the quest for external approval remains a powerful force, often overshadowing self-acceptance.In this clip
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