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Published Dec 17, 2024

Are Men Okay?

Scott Galloway and Sean Illing dive into the evolving concept of masculinity, highlighting the role of digital spaces, mentorship, and fatherhood in shaping modern male identity. They propose solutions like national service to build community and purpose, while emphasizing the impact of strong role models and the transformative nature of parenting.
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  • Parental Fulfillment

    Parenting offers profound fulfillment, transforming lives by providing a sense of purpose and satisfaction. shares how having children made him feel whole, emphasizing the need for policies that support young families financially 1. He reflects on his life before fatherhood, which was driven by the pursuit of more—more money, fame, and experiences—until the simple moments with his children brought true contentment 2.

    The biggest moments, most important moments with my kids have been unexpected. I'm driving them to school, not looking them in the eye, and they say, dad, there's a girl I like at school. This happened. What do you think you pray for those moments as a dad?

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    These unexpected moments, he notes, are the essence of parenting, offering rewards beyond material gains.

       

    Father's Role

    Fatherhood involves sacrifices and rewards, with the primary role being to give more than one receives. explains that being a father means absorbing more than you get back, a realization that has been transformative for him 3. He emphasizes the importance of investing love, emotion, and resources into children, even if the returns are not immediate 4.

    If you feel as if, all right, I'm not getting as much for my kids as I'm giving. That means you're being a father. That's what we're here for. We're here to absorb blows.

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    This mindset, he believes, is crucial for fulfilling the purpose of fatherhood and creating a lasting impact.

       

    Love and Legacy

    Love within the family and the legacy parents leave are pivotal in shaping children's futures. stresses the importance of economic security and spending quality time with children, which he refers to as "garbage time"—unstructured moments that can lead to meaningful interactions 5. He also highlights the significance of being a loving partner, as children learn how to treat others by observing their parents.

    I really do believe that the best thing you can do as a father for your kids is to love their mother.

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    This approach, he argues, not only benefits the children but also contributes to a better world by instilling positive values in the next generation.

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